5 rated things that makes women love a guy

Tulisan ini dibuat oleh saya berdasarkan hasil survey yang saya lakukan dengan mengambil sample wanita indonesia dengan range umur 21-28 tahun yg berdomisili di jakarta dan bandung. The Ugly truth is..this not about how handsome he is or how rich he is..women definitely need more than just a handsome face or a richy rich guy type person, lagian yg kayak gitu cuman ada di kehidupan sinetron yang memang cenderung LEBAY...real life say it exactly the opposite!!!So, this is not a crap..and here the fact:

1. funny (Women need a joke as much as they need a jewelRy)
pria yang humoris dan santai selalu bisa meluluhkan wanita manapun, salah satu informan saya merupakan wanita idaman di kantor yang selalu menolak pria-pria berwajah ganteng dan mapan untuk dijadikan soulmate. And at the end...si cantik ini memilih pria yang bermuka paling standart terutama jika dibandingkan dengan ratusan pria yg mengejarnya selama ini. But after i spend some time dengan pria muka standart ini..finally i found the quality of this man which is....dia sangat humoris. jokenya selalu bisa membuat siapa saja tertawa. Perlu diingat jokenya mengandung unsur 3 hal yaitu sangat cerdas, ringan dan tidak berbau seks ataupun sara dan yang pasti gak maksa!!!! Lebih bagus lagi klw bisa "tertawa bersama" sampai terpingkal-pingkal...for women that thing are so fuckin romantic. The fact is: Women need a joke as much as they need a jewelRy. Ku doakan semoga informan ku YG SUPER CANTIK ini get happY ever after with her standart face boyfriend..amin.


2. Be a good friend first..(comfort always important)
Banyak kasus ditemukan, pada akhirnya perempuan jatuh cinta pada temen curhatnya sendiri which is btw friend with a full cup of comfort daripada pacar super duper gantengnya. Jadi segala sesuatu yang terburu-buru dalam artian a women/ a men meet a cute and smart person yang dalam proses kurang dari sebulan sudah menginginkan more than friend yaitu menjadi lover....bisa ditebak ujung2nya pasti gak everlasting. The silver line is: u have to take u'r time, jadilah teman yg baik dulu sampai dia merasa nyaman and after that..u say it the love words!!!Tapi yang perlu diingat disini yaitu JANGAN KELAMAAN JADI TEMEN!!!!banyak informan saya yang mengatakan bahwa sebenarnya dia menyukai temennya si A setelah mereka menjadi a good friend untuk saling bercerita and update social live. Tapi berhubung, si A ini kelamaan buat make a move....jadilah informan saya ini akhirnya memilih someone else yg paling enggak berani buat bilang those 3 magic words.

3. Gak ngebosenin pas ngbrol via phone
ini adalah faktor yang sangat menentukan, pasalnya banyak wanita yang mengatakan bahwa...mau ganteng kek, tajir kek, tapi kalo pas ngbrol di telp dia ngebosenin dan gak bikin excited, women's will say no!!! Bahkan ada beberapa kasus yang menimpa beberapa informan TERMASUK SAYA sendiri, we broke a guy cuman gara-gara dia negbosenin pas ngobrol ditelp.....kenyataan yang pahit memang!!!!jadi tampaknya update bahan2 obrolan dengan banyak membaca sangat penting dan tentunya joke yg cerdas.


4. NOT TOO MUCH and not BORING
TIDAK BERLEBIHAN....baik dalam merayu atau memberikan perhatian ketika bertemu langsung, chat atau bahkan sms singkat via phone. Yang pasti jangan pernah memberikan perhatian dalam bentuk2 yang terlalu jelas dan cenderung basi seperti: "udah makan kan?"..HELLOOOOOOOOO..kita bukan anak kecil lagi yg klw makan harus diingetin segala macem. BIG NO NO...believe me, siapa pun bisa il-feel ketika mendapatkan perhatian yg BORING seperti ini. Be creative person please...ini membuktikan kenapa anak-anak band yang bermuka standart dan para komedian bermuka "nggak bgt" bisa jalan sama cewek high maintenance dan bahkan had a everlasting relationship ever.....yah simply just because mereka kreatif dan GAK bikin boring. Saya sempat ngobrol sama salah satu vokalIS band yg lumayan terkenal di jakarta (muka standart tp pacar super model), dia bilang jgn pernah mengirim sms yg sudah tentu tidak akan mendapat respon, jadilah kreatif dan lucu ketika memberikan perhatian..misalnya: "hei, ada oleh-oleh di pilih karena bentuknya ajaib..just like u..bla..bla..bla!!!! So perempuan tidak menyukai hal-hal yang basi..up's sory to say

5 Tulusssssss
percaya atau gak, ada hormon di dalam diri wanita yang bisa membantu merasakan ketulusan atau bahkan tidak ketulusan seorang pria. We just know it, terutama ketika pria berbohong dengan mengatakan that he trully love you padahal sebenarnya he just want to get u into bed!!!!!women can feel this kind of sense...almost every women can..that like our gift.

Drifted Apart

dedicated to someone



I don't know where or how to start
to cover the years that we spent apart
you're way out west and I'm in the east
on the phone at best small talk at least
and it breaks my heart
oh, how we've drifted apart

you and I were thick as thieves
the best of friends that could ever be
but time flies by and it's in the breeze
just a shoebox full of memories
and it breaks my heart
oh, how we've drifted apart

I'll never forget your kind brown eyes
or the fingerprints you left all over my life
still it breaks my heart
oh, how we've drifted apart
oh, how we've drifted apart
oh, how we've drifted apart


drfited apart by meaghan-smith

dont judge me

having a blog is more than just a stupid written words but it's teach me how to speak up. The ugly truth is(rool the drum please)me was nothing but a good pretender, always take a "silent hill" moment rather than "fight your mind". Maybe people look at me as a fun person who always be able to speak her mind, i fool u guys(sorry to say)I can stand and speak up everything that comes to others need not mine.

and for god shake,"a silent hill" moment was happen again (huaaaa). So let me shouting out in this blog to keep my mind healthy. I hate Miss Y at that time (just call her miss Y) she was my friend which is be there at that freakin time. Here the situation, my ex was coming to visit me, we just chatt and try to be friend. He tell me about hard relationship that my ex going through right now and i try my best to give him my advice. And Miss y ask something to my ex which is make me stroke!

ex: jadi gimana donk?(ask for relationship advice)
Y : (SAMBIL NYENGIR KUDA)lho emangnya kapan jadian sama cew ini?(menatap kearah gw)
me : (what the fuck?!!!)*diam*
Ex : tiga bulan abis putus kalau gak salah
Y : (TERTAWA PELAN)..kirain gak lama bis putus langsung jadian lg(menyeringai puas)
Me : *i got stroke*

OH MY GOD, kenapa juga Miss y menanyakan hal ini ditambah dengan seringai penuh arti? persis senyuman ala vampire ketika menangkap basah korbannya. untuk apa? just for fun kah? sama sekali gak fun!!!dia jelas-jelas menyindir aku, dan apa hak-nya untuk melakukan ini?. Heloo Miss Y, u never really there at that time which is happened one years ago. U to damn busy with your own romance remember? so darling, u dont have any right to judge me coz u dont have any clue about it.

here the things, i broke up with my ex with a damn good reason that only me and god know why, something that personally about me and him. i'm not gonna share this reason with u. Please respect this as i respect your other decision at u'r life. And because of that reason...i broke up with no regret at all. Fully blessed with my own decision. And to make it easy, even god send someone new to replace him as soon as u can see. The point is, u know nothing about the whole thing..u know nothing coz only me who feel this...this is about my life not yours...and what u got is only a piece of puzzle. So dont judge me!!!

where is your manner when u said that in front of HIM,hey...maybe he was my ex but he was my forever friend or maybe my future best friend. We totally already get over our past, our hurt and sad momment. i Dont need to open the "past box" anymore..friendship is a good words for us and i like to keep it forever.